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Wednesday, April 23

Anti-bullying protest draws organized opposition in Texas suburb

Source: Houston Chronicle
The Houston Chronicle reports that suburban school districts in the area have been fielding a flurry of calls recently from parents concerned about the anti-bullying observance, Day of Silence. The report suggests that the calls are part of an organized campaign to stop the anti-bullying protest.

This week, Alton Frailey, superintendent of Katy's school district, let all teachers know that -- though no one asked his district to participate in the silent protest -- if someone did, "my answer is no."

His districtwide e-mail on the subject, which confused and offended some teachers according to the Chronicle, came in response to form letters from parents complaining about Day of Silence, a national, and usually non-disruptive, silent student protest meant to draw attention to bullying based on sexual orientation.

"The degree of exposure and political posturing currently being generated is bringing more attention to this particular subject than is necessary," Frailey wrote Monday in an e-mail that also instructed teachers not to make exceptions for students taking vows of silence.

The event began in 1996, but only started getting negative attention recently. In 2005, the conservative legal group the Alliance Defense Fund staged a counterprotest, called Day of Truth, which supports the "free speech rights of Christian students to present an opposing viewpoint to those organizations that promote homosexual behavior in the schools," according to the group's Web site. Then this year, the American Family Association sent an alert encouraging parents to keep kids home Friday if other students at their schools are participating in the Day of Silence.

"There are a lot of misinformation campaigns originating with groups who recognize that the Day of Silence is a very powerful positive thing," said Daryl Presgraves, a GLSEN spokesman.

The AFA did not return a call seeking comment, but one form letter from its Web site notes "by allowing students to remain silent, administrations fail to protect the classroom from intrusive, political exploitation."

In Katy, students have zipped their lips in protest before, the Chronicle reports. At least four schools registered last year. This just seems to be the first time the administration is getting involved. The move upset some teachers, even if it eased the minds of a few parents.

"I was greatly offended," said a gay teacher with the district, who asked not to be identified because he feared backlash. "What is the worst that can happen? Good Lord, how much instruction could you get done if kids were silent for a day?"

The Chronicle reports that the the silent protest has been going on for years in the Houston Independent School District. Neither that district, nor other suburban districts sent teachers or principals a directive on how to handle the silent protesters.

All the districts agree that students have the constitutional right to keep quiet outside of the classroom.

"Anything students do along those lines is strictly voluntary, on their own, similar to the hands-around-the-flagpole kind of events," a spokesman for HISD told the Chronicle.

At HISD's Pershing Middle School, CeCe White, who is straight, told the paper that she is organizing Friday's silent protest in part because her best friend is gay. The 14-year-old doesn't expect any problems with teachers and has the support of her mom.

"She has an opinion, and I think that's a great thing," said White's mom, Gail Fox.

Full article: Katy ISD abuzz on teens' silent protest of bullying of gays | Houston Chronicle

Posted by NewsEditor on Apr 23 2008, 09:52 AM [Permalink]

  • Tiffany Long said:

    The difference between the "hands around the flagpole" event and this "Day of Silence" is that is takes place during the normal school hours, not outside of school time.  This event also encourages students to wear clothing that draws "attention" to their cause and distribute material throughout the course of the day which MANY parents would find objectionable.  Materials distributed throught the school must be approved prior to distribution and parents MUST be given ample opportunity to opt their children out from any "sexually" or "politically" charged event.  

    Besides, who doesn't remember what it was like in school when some scandalous event was taking place and students refused to speak in class of answer questions?  I do.  It was very disruptive despite what anyone else would care for you to think.

    These are matters that should be addressed by parents and parents alone.  If parents don't fulfill their duty and prevent bullying at school, those children will need to be punished.  Besides, if the gays are upset about being punished, do they deserve special training of the others to protect them and not other fringe groups as well.  This whole being gay thing has turned into the next fad among public school students.  Look at other educational institutions, they are aren't experiencing these phenomenas.  

    Come on Mom's and Dad's, love your children and meet their need of approval in a normal, non-sexual way and they will grow up well adjusted and not need to despirately seek affections in an area where they are emotionally needy in order to validate them as human beings.

    This Lawrence King they are honoring this year, he was a child who a product of the State Foster Program and living in a group home called Casa Pacifica.  He had a very sad life that ended sadly.  We can stop this violence by loving these children enough, in the right manner including instructing them go forgo deviant behavior, that their needs will be met emotionally.  For those that are looking to replace that male relationship or female relationship that didn't exist or was dismal, we must tell them the truth about why they are looking for their affections to be met in this way and direct them on the right path.

    They need TRUTH, not validation of their sin.  Since they don't understand that REAL LOVE is sometimes discipline, they need to have a guardian willing to invest large amounts of time in this to help them reclaim their lives. Change is possible, but only with the help of parents and guardians.

    May 6, 2008 12:35 AM
  • Robin Evans said:

    What you're calling "truth" sounds a whole lot like the silly myth perpetrated by a cadre anti-gay activists who use their "faith" to justify mythic attitudes that have little to do with any kind of supportable "truth".

    Yes, parents should, indeed, love their children. But it's an unfortunate fact that their are some parents (too many of them under the mistaken guidance of perpetrators of the aforementioned myths) who find it impossible to love their children for what they are.

    Bullying for any number of reasons is clearly a problem in schools. Day of Silence shouldn't be the only response to the problem of bullying, but it's a valid educational lesson for any school. It's all the more valid because it's a lesson that's taught by the students themselves.

    And, frankly, to excuse -- as you seem to do -- a murder because the victim is someone you think did not "forgo deviant behavior" is outrageous and disgusting.

    Unfortunately, attitudes like yours are what contibutes to the need for events like Day of Silence, since too many children learn bigotry from their parents.

    May 6, 2008 12:43 PM

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